Should I Stay or Should I Go? Deciding if Continued Military Service Is Right for You

January 21, 2025

By Joe Byerly

This is a deeply personal question, and the answers are unique to each individual. While some reasons may seem similar—staying in for family, getting out for family—the underlying motivations and circumstances can vary greatly. These decisions are rarely simple, often involving a complex mix of factors such as family, job security, mental wellness, temperament, financial considerations, location.

At From the Green Notebook, we believe that when people share their stories, it helps others reflect on their own choices. Sometimes, reading about the other’s decisions points us toward clarity as we navigate our own challenges.

That’s why we’re launching a new series called “Why.”

The theme for this series is simple: Deciding if continued military service is right for you.

We’re inviting submissions from those willing to share their stories. Specifically, we are looking to hear the stories of people who felt they were at a crossroads, and how they decided to make their decision. Your experiences and insights could provide invaluable perspective for others grappling with similar decisions.

Each post should be between 600–1200 words and include:

  1. Why you joined the military in the first place.
  2. What aspects of your military service you enjoyed and what frustrated you.
  3. The factors you considered when making your decision.
  4. The moment or moments when your decision became crystal clear.
  5. Advice you would give to your younger self or reflections you have looking back on your journey

We look forward to hearing your stories and sharing them with our community. Your “why” could be the guide someone else needs. Submissions are due to Editor@fromthegreennotebook.com by February 22, 2025

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